Today is Nerd or Geek Pride Day, which I have also converted
into Neek Pride Day. Happy Pride Day to all my dear nerds, geeks, and neeks!
To celebrate, I’m going to visit my brother, a fellow neek
if there ever was one. It’s always interesting when I visit my brother.
Sometimes we stay in and do totally awesome neek things like have an anime
marathon & drinking game, or play magic cards. Sometimes we go out and party,
or go be active and play something like ultimate Frisbee (which I fail at). I’m not sure what we’re
doing this time. He promised we’d go play laser tag though, so I’m pretty
psyched about that.
On the other hand, I am not at all excited about my layover
in Chicago. It seems like my flights ALWAYS go through Chicago. I’m getting
sick of their food options. And really, how do they not have a Starbucks in the
airport?? Don’t get me wrong I normally appreciate local coffee places, but
right now I am desperately craving a mocha cookie crumble frappuccino. How dare
you deny me, Chicago!! I don’t want to get one after finally landing… that’ll
be way too late in the afternoon. I don’t process caffeine the same way I used
to. Curse you, Chicago Midway!
That was a rather large digression. I apologize, those
cookie crumble frapps are just sooooo good.
Today I actually want to talk more about pride. I’m very
happy there is a holiday devoted to nerd/geek/neek pride. Interestingly enough,
I used to think I wasn’t the type of person that had a lot of pride.
I’m not sure why really. I certainly wasn’t the opposite
either; it’s not like I was ashamed of myself or anything. Pride just wasn’t a
word I really connected with myself.
When I was in college, I took a class where we converted a
medieval play into a more modern version. Everyone in the class had different
jobs to get it set up, and then most of us also acted in the play. I was part
of the crew that actually wrote it. Our medieval play was the Castle of Perseverance, which we turned
into Fast Times at Morality High. It
was pretty awesome, if I do say so myself.
Honestly no idea what I'm doing in this shot. |
The Virtues became cheerleaders at the school. The Vices
became a gang. I was cast as a Vice, Pride. My friends and I thought it was a
bit odd, because again, I don’t identify myself as particularly prideful, but I
figured I didn’t really match any of the other roles either. Plus I had a lot
of fun with it. We were doing it 80s style, so I threw my hair into crazy curls
and got some jellies. I went looking for pictures of us Vices in our full 80s
glory, and stumbled upon the
website we created for the play. Too bad we don’t have the full video up!
You’d be in for a treat.
It really wasn’t until this week that I started to rethink
my stance on what it means to have pride. I was reading Divergent (which is super awesome and gets 2 thumbs up from me) and
the main character was talking about how she had too much pride. She identified
it as the weakness for a group, as their pride kept them acting tough and doing
crazy, dangerous things just so they wouldn’t lose face.
Seriously, it was like a light bulb moment. Unbeknownst to
myself, I have always been INSANELY prideful. It just blends in so well with
some of my other more obvious traits (stubbornness, defiance), that I never
realized it was part of the problem.
Take for instance, one of my mother’s favorite examples of
an early childhood moment that confirmed I would be a handful. My mother had
surgery on her foot, so my grandmother was staying with us for a few weeks to
help out. Now I already had my mother trained on how to dress me for
kindergarten, but apparently my grandmother missed the memo because she tried
to make me wear pants. So what if it
was the winter?? I wore fluffy dresses.
Everyone wore fluffy dresses. I absolutely refused to put on the pants, and
would not go to school in anything except one of my dresses.
Don’t worry, I won the argument. I always thought this
situation was just because I wanted to wear a dress, but in reconsidering, the
whole reason I wore fluffy dresses (besides liking them) was because I was
proud. It was a status symbol in our class. Sure, no one would really care if I
went one day without a dress, but I had faaaaaaaaaar too much pride to hold
myself to the lower standards of people who dressed according to the weather. I was one of the few girls that sat at the top of the jungle gym damnit, and by God I would not lose face be being relegated to the lower half with the pants wearers!
And this was when I was in kindergarten. Imagine how much
worse that pride has been getting without me realizing it.
But pride is not a negative thing. Sometimes it might lead
to some extreme reactions, but in general I think it’s important to have pride
in yourself.
Now that I think about it, there are several areas where
I’ve always had a lot of pride. I’m a proud Steelers fan. I’m proud of my
Scottish heritage. And we all know how proud I am of my epic
reading abilities.
So let’s all celebrate the fact that what were formerly
belittling traits are now cause for pride. Celebrate your neekness! And while
you’re at it, celebrate and be proud of all the other things that make you,
well, YOU!
I’ll finish with good news as well! I just realized I’m
flying through DALLAS on my way there, not Chicago. That’s on the way back. Now
as long as Dallas airport has a Starbucks I will be one happy neek!
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