A Year in Books

I realized today as I was memorizing my parking spot number (D2) that I’m probably more of a Star Wars fan than I thought (I visualized R2-D2 to remember it of course). However, my primary geekdom remains and will always be my bookworm habits.

Last year my friend Erin revealed that apparently the average American only reads 4 books a year. She decided to track how many books she read during the year to see how it compared. Given my own love of reading and obsessive tracking habits, I decided to do the same.

Now I didn’t actually start tracking the books I was reading until April (since Erin’s post wasn’t until the end of March to give me the idea), so I don’t have a full year’s worth of data. Even with missing a few months I realized there are actually a lot of interesting trends I could determine from the numbers.

Let’s start with the simple logistics. I had two sheets I used to track information. One was my number sheet where each month I tracked the numbers of books I finished reading during the month. Initially I had broken this down in two columns, print books and iPad books. I quickly decided I wanted a third column to track which books were actually re-reads that I had read at some point before. On the second sheet, I simply listed for each month the name and author of each book I finished reading, highlighting in blue any re-reads. 

As the months passed I realized there were some issues with my tracking mechanisms. Because I didn’t add a book to the sheet until I finished reading it, what would happen frequently is that I would read the bulk of the book one month but finish it the first or second day of the month where it was actually tracked. This shows especially in November. I didn’t do any reading in November because of NaNoWriMo, except that I had a book I was reading that I finished on November first simply because I only had like 40 pages left.

The other main issue is that this setup doesn’t capture all of my reading, only the books completed. I’ve discussed before how I don’t really read in a linear fashion, and many times I start a book and then give up. The thing is sometimes these are VERY large books, and I read 200-300 pages before I give up. That’s a lot of reading that’s not being accounted for!

Still, while keeping that in mind, I think nonetheless I gathered enough information to start identifying some of my reading trends in a year.

Let me throw some numbers at you. I read a total of 65 books from April 1 through December 31^st. Not bad for a year. 40 books were print, 7 were on the iPad, and 18 were actually re-reads.

Typically I read about 6 new books a month. I had a least 1 re-read a month as well, although technically it might average out to 2 per month.  

There were 3 months during the year that bucked the trends a bit, and I find it very interesting to consider what happened during those months.

In July, I actually read 12 new books. My first thought was maybe I had started a very engaging new series, but looking back at which books they were, actually only 2 were in the same series.

August was the next month that was a little off. I read far less in August (only 4 books tools). Most of the books were re-reads, I only read 1 new book in the month.

The last month that didn’t match the normal pattern was September. September was split evenly between new books and re-reads, but all the new books I read that month were on the iPad instead of print.

Those 3 months just so happen to be part of our “busy season” at work. Given what I remember of the year and what I see on the spreadsheet, I’ve drawn some interesting conclusions about what happened.

The first conclusion is that when I’m stressed/unhappy I read more. Although August was a little lower that was partially because of people visiting and things like that, but both July and September were higher than the average. As the stress/unhappiness continues, I tend to fall back on re-reading. Looking through the specific books I chose to re-read, I realized I have some “comfort books” and that I turn to them to cheer myself up.

The second conclusion is that despite all my complaining about e-reading, when push comes to shove it works. Why did I have more iPad books in September? I had started the Mortal Instruments series, and I decided to download them on the iPad as other people in my family were going to read them too (we share an account). Plus when I finished one I wanted the next in the series instantly - none of that driving to the bookstore stuff when wincest is on the line! And despite the fact that I was reading on the iPad, which I always say doesn’t feel like a real book and I can’t do it easily at home, I managed to get through 4 books on there in one month.

All in all I think I did pretty good for a year of reading. I’ve started tracking my books for 2014 (2 finished so far), but I still need to think through if I want to make some edits to the spreadsheet. It might be interesting to start tracking the books I abandon and maybe later figure out if there is a pattern to that as well. Plus at some point I should look for a method of tracking non-traditional reading, like fanfiction and manga. I’m also excited to see if trends change year by year. Maybe I start to read less, or read more. Who knows! 

Be Afraid

Almost everyone has a horror story around bringing a significant other home for the holidays. And while we can all agree that every family is their own brand of crazy, I think it’s safe to say that my dad’s side of the family may be a little worst than the norm.

I grew up enjoying tales of the hijinks my aunts and uncles put any potential newcomers through. Some were amusing but harmless – like when they declared it was “weird hat day” or when they went through the house and turned all the photos upside down in their frames. They played a few pranks on girl/boyfriends that were foolish enough to meet the family, but by far the worst shenanigans were whenever someone was engaged. My uncle Dave is still a little bitter about the family vote on whether or not he was allowed to marry my aunt Deb. Of course, it wasn’t a vote in the normal sense. That would be far too easy.

What actually happened was that for Easter dinner, one of my other aunts put eggs full of m&ms at each plate. After the dinner was over, they announced that it was the official vote on whether Dave was accepted into the family, and anyone that ate their m&ms was voting against Dave. Both Deb and Dave are chocolate lovers, so they were dismayed to discover they had inadvertently voted against Dave by eating their candy. In the end the vote to accept Dave passed, but it was a very near thing.

There hasn’t been too much crazy in my generation yet. We like to pick on any significant others with small things, like encouraging them to drink a lot or targeting them when we play games. One Christmas when my brother brought his girlfriend of the time, somebody wrapped a fake diamond ring and stuck it in with the gifts, but thankfully somebody else overruled them and took it out of the pile before madness could ensue.

Of course, until this year no one has been engaged out of my group of cousins. This year though, my cousin Kristen was the first Cameron of our generation to bring a fiancée back for Christmas.

There was a lot of texting, and emailing, and eventually it was decided my father was in charge of coming up with the plan to torture Kristen and Matthew, her fiancée. While we were on vacation in November my dad and I plotted all sorts of potential scenarios about what we could do. My mother didn’t contribute much, possibly because she’s too much of a goody two shoe, or maybe because she didn’t have to go through too much to get into the family.

Once we had a really good idea I floated it past my brother, some of his friends, and some of my friends to see general reactions. When my brother thought it was brilliant and friends thought it was insane, I decided we had an official plan. Given that I was (and still am for next year, seriously why doesn’t anyone else want this job) the Game Commissioner for the day (if you’re unfamiliar with how my family does Christmas, click here to catch up on the awesome), I ended up facilitating things.

My cousin Kristen is a lawyer, so what we decided to do was hold a trial to determine whether or not Matthew was accepted into the Cameron clan.

Impartial Judge Jason

I pretended we were running another game at the end of the night, and then directed Kristen and Matthew to their chairs of honor, Matthew as the defendant and Kristen as his lawyer. I left an empty chair across from them, and then wheeled out my brother’s friend Jason who was acting as our honorable judge for the evening, announcing that as he is not actually part of the family he would be the most impartial and could make a verdict.

Then, I revealed that I had tried to gather character witnesses on Matthew’s behalf, but that none were willing to speak, so instead we had secretly put Matthew through a series of tests over the weekend. One by one I called up other family members to the empty chair to announce the results of these tests.

Shooting Expert Witness Dad

First up was my father, who had taken the adorable couple shooting the day before. He sadly discussed how Kristen clearly outshot Matthew, and that he found this to be very shameful and a point against him.

Drinking Expert Witness Aunt Deb

Next was my aunt Deb, who performed wonderfully considering I had roped her in last minute when one of my brother’s other friends decided against speaking (you may wonder why there are so many random people at our family Christmas. Just more proof of the awesome. If you would ever like to come or want a full detailed description of our games this year let me know!). Deb pointed out that Matthew was drinking red wine, something no one else really does, and how he was barely halfway through the bottle. Moderate drinkers do not keep up with Camerons. Clearly another strike against him.

Walleyball Expert Witness CJ

Finally I called up my brother CJ with the results of the walleyball competition from earlier that day. CJ described how he was really pulling for Matthew to do well, but he was a failure on the court and of course our cousin Kristen really deserves better.

Every so often Kristen tried to make a point or respond to some of the statements, but Judge Jason cut her off. She started to question his (and our) impartialness, but finally I announced that Kristen could now make her case as to why we would allow Matthew to join our illustrious family.

Kristen of course did a stellar job, so good in fact that when we asked Judge Jason for his decision, he agreed with both sides and could not make a final judgment. Instead, he proclaimed that the final game of the evening would determine Matthew’s fate. The planned final game? A poker match, with the victory going to whichever team had the winning player. Matthew was on my team, the reindeers. Unfortunately for him, and as I clarified to the family, the elf team had Jason on it, and Jason is an actual poker champ (like he’s made money doing it).

Kristen & Defendant Matthew questioning the proceedings

For those of you concerned about Matthew’s fate, don’t worry. As Game Commissioner I overruled to remove the poker tournament and allow Matthew into the family. After all he had done a pretty good job all day on the reindeer team, was pretty much solely responsible for winning the corn hole competition, and he took the trial in stride.

Some of my family had questioned why we were carrying on the tradition of torturing potential new members, but I believe in the system. I don’t even care that I could one day go through some similar nonsense. Because the thing is, my family is special. If you stick around long enough you are guaranteed to experience some craziness. I think it’s better to make sure you have someone that can accept that straight off the bat, rather than it being a big surprise later on. Also, my uncle Dave was pretty adamant Matthew should have to go through something. Like I said, he may still be a little bitter. This probably means Kristen and Matthew will take a special interest in whoever is engaged next. So take this as fair warning if you ever consider marrying a Cameron. I don’t know what you’ll go through exactly, but it’s pretty safe to say it’s not going to be your average meet the family.

4 Life Truths I Learned at Jazzercise

Thankfully I have been able to jazzercise again the last two weeks. There was a few week period where due to travel and then my knee being incredibly weird I had to stop. As my friend Jenn put it:  “thank goodness you are Jazzercizing again!  What else would you talk about?   You’d have to result to only TVD and Originals and I don’t know that you’re caught up yet.  So how on earth would you function in society?”

I realized when I returned to jazzercise after my brief hiatus how much I need it to be happy. Not only because it’s a huge stress reliever, but because when I go to jazzercise I am reminded of some very important life truths that help me keep things in perspective. Here are the four top life truths I learned in jazzercise.

4. People Are Stupid (but get over it)

There are times at jazzercise where I am incredibly annoyed by some of the other participants. It has nothing to do with knowing the routine, or how well they do it. Jazzercise is a judge free zone.

No, what pisses me off is the evidence that people lack basic reasoning skills when it comes to arranging themselves in a small place. Sometimes it’s a crowded class, and you’re just not going to have a lot of room. That’s fine. But sometimes people go stand in the most ridiculous spots so now some of us are squished together and the other half of the room could fit like five more people.

Last week I was getting particularly angry because there was a woman right behind me that was so close I had to watch my moves to avoid accidentally kicking/punching her in the face at points (although I kind of wanted to). The kicker was that there was enough space between her and the woman behind her that if one of my tall friends was lying on the floor, there would still be room between them (that’s the only way I can really conceptualize distance). So let’s call that over six feet of space. Did it ever occur to this woman to back up?? No, and in fact with some songs she kept inching ever closer.

But at the end of the routine when we do our strength training there’s always more room, and I have time to calm down. Despite how easy it is to get angry at people and hold on to that anger, it’s so much better for you to let it go. Some of these people are actually really nice, and there is absolutely no benefit to being angry.

3. Everyone Has a Thing

When I reached my 150 classes in October, I excitedly texted a good chunk of my friends and family.  My mom responded with “who would have ever thought you would become an exercise fanatic!” My dad makes similar statements all the time when he calls and I’m like “just leaving jazzercise” or “need to head to my jazzercise class now.”

The thing is, I hate exercising. When my parents tried to get me to exercise when I was younger it was like pulling teeth. Actually harder, because I’ve had a lot of teeth pulled and it’s not that bad of a process.

And even now, when I can’t jazzercise for whatever reason, I don’t workout. I think I should but I can’t make myself do it. But I love jazzercise. It’s my thing. I didn’t think I’d ever find a workout I’d love but there you go. Don’t get me wrong, there are days when I’m too lazy or hungover or unmotivated and I skip class, but overall I think I’m doing a fabulous job with it, and it’s all because I love it so.

2. It Matters Who You’re With

Did you know they’ve done studies that found if you hang around with people that are generally unhappy your happiness goes down as well? It’s too early in the morning for me to find one of those studies, but trust me I’ve read that somewhere.

Who you’re with can play a big role in your attitude and behavior. With jazzercise, I’ve found this particularly true when it comes to the instructors. Even when they’re doing the same routine some of the instructors are a little more enthusiastic than others. They do the high intensity moves pretty much the entire time, and they are freaking HIGH intensity. There are others that do the same song but do it a little more casual.

I’ve found that I always get a better workout with the higher intensity instructors. It doesn’t seem to matter that I realize when the instructor is doing a lighter version, I go along with it. The only exception is when there are other people in the class (that I can see) that are still doing very high intensity.

One of the things they say a lot in jazzercise is that we go to class so we can workout together and motivate each other. This is absolutely true. I apparently am only as committed to the workout at the people around me. I probably should use this knowledge to make myself do the high intensity moves no matter what, but I use it more as a life lesson. I am now trying to surround myself with people that genuinely make me happy, and not people that bring me down.

1. You Can’t Please Everyone

Thank god jazzercise emphasizes this to me so much, because I absolutely need to remember it at all times. With jazzercise, I realized the truth of this statement when I started traveling and hitting a large variety of instructors.

You see, I have my favorites. There are some that I’ve had multiple times that I think are really nice people, but I don’t like their style. However, I’ve heard other people in the class say the same individual is their favorite instructor. There are different things I take into consideration – the intensity level, what they say during the routine, whether they emphasize certain moves that people typically get wrong, etc. There was one instructor that drove me insane because during leg routines she just yelled “get lower!” at us again and again no matter how low we went. There was another the other day that kept telling us to breathe through the nose, and that annoyed me (and also seemed weird since then literally five days later another instructor was yelling that we needed to breathe through the mouth).

The point is, as I’ve discussed multiple times with a friend, people like different things. Certain types of instructors resonate with me better. The reason this is so key for me to remember is that I too often fall in the trap of thinking EVERYONE should like me. When I used to train customers at work, I was devastated by every bad review. Let’s not even talk about how I now have a complex about my voice after a few complaints about it.

I realize this every time I jazzercise and I think I should really learn to keep it in mind every single day. If I can’t please everyone, and I can’t, I think it should be more important to do what makes me happy than worry about what other people are going to think.

There are other little things that jazzercise helps me learn, but those are the big ones. At this point I know that when I don’t get to go to jazzercise for a long period, it makes me cranky. We’ll see how that plays out this week since there’s not really a class nearby.

If My Characters Are Alcoholics that Don't Shut Up, What Does That Make Me?

NaNoWriMo is making me its bitch. Even here in fabulous Las Vegas I'm using mornings to try and write a few words each day. The toughest part for me is that there is so much I want to go back and change/fix, but I need to just keep moving forward. Le sigh.

Anyway, I decided to share a bit of the story so far with you, my faithful readers. Any feedback is appreciated! I suppose I could post the first chapter, but it's not my favorite. I've discovered that what I really like are the scenes with Matt (main male character) and he wasn't in chapter one. Instead, I'm sharing chapter 4, in which I start to suspect that my characters are alcoholics. To catch you up, Grace (main female character) has been somewhat stalking her friend Billy to see if she approves of the girl he's dating. She met Matt while spying on their date. She's worried her brother Leg is interested in the same girl. So much drama... Enjoy!

Chapter 4

            Matt knew he didn’t technically have to come to the games, but he thought it was one of the best ways to see a different side to the kids. The same boys that couldn’t walk down a hallway without causing a scene were now serious and focused. Instead of feeding off the attention they didn’t even notice the spectators. Matt also knew that it was a good way to establish himself as part of the community. Especially in these small towns. It hadn’t happened here yet, but at his last school several of the parents had called in panicked when they realized the new counselor wasn’t from the area. He didn’t think anyone at Aurora High would go that far, but there was definitely a townie mentality here.

            Of course thanks to that woman Grace he now knew one of the town secrets. Matt shook his head. Pumpkin risotto… he considered himself a bit of a foodie, but that was something new. He planned to go back and order it himself, and this time maybe he could eat in peace.

            That was another good thing about going to the games. It was a spectator sport, meaning the crowd was so focused on what was happening on the court it was as if they forgot they were in public and other people could still see them. It was the same with restaurants. Sure, many people normally kept their voices down, but they didn’t seem to realize how easy it was to overhear their conversations.

            Matt was particularly enjoying the blonde a few rows down. She had arrived as early as him which was interesting on its own, and instead of watching the game she seemed to be staring at the sidelines. Matt squinted, trying to figure out what she was looking at. It wasn’t really a good indication, but none of the boys looked related to her. Actually, she was most often looking in the direction of the coach.

            There was something familiar about him. Matt tried to remember if he was one of the teachers he met last week, and if so what was his name. Something about the girl seemed familiar too. Before Matt could figure out what about the two of them was niggling the back of his mind, he noticed another woman heading straight towards him. What was it with this town? Really something about her face felt familiar too, but he was absolutely sure he would remember those strawberry curls.

            She nodded towards the seat next to him, and to his surprise after sitting down leaned close to his ear. “What, no sex comments today? I’m shocked.”

            “Grace?” Matt stared incredulously. Sure enough it was those same gorgeous eyes, although if possible the face looked even more wholesome than before.

            “How many random women do you have coming up to you?” Grace scowled. “You’ve been here what, a few weeks, and you’re already the town player?”

            “Hey, remember that you are at my mercy now, so you better play nice.” Matt studied her some more. “I like this look. That getup you had last time didn’t do you justice. Don’t get me wrong though the cleavage alone was fantastic, but with that hair it was like you were channeling Elvira.”

            “Please don’t make me throw you down the bleachers,” Grace said. “It would be a horrible example to the kids. I was even nice enough to bring popcorn.” She handed over a bag. “It’s not the same, but I wanted to say thank you again for picking up the check the other night so I could run out.”

            Something clicked. Matt turned back towards the blonde so fast he felt his neck crick. “That’s your Billy’s chick over there, isn’t it. Are you really here stalking them again?”

            “I’m not stalking them.” Grace kept her eyes down as she rummaged through her gigantic purse. “I come to the games all the time. In fact, my brother Leg should be here soon. See, totally normal. Now move forward for a second, you need to block me.”

            Matt obligingly leaned towards her, watching in dismay as she pulled a bottle of wine from the purse depths and started pouring into plastic cups. “For a minute there I thought I heard your brother was an egg, but now I’m taking everything you say with a grain of salt. Do you normally offer strangers purse wine?”

            “All they have at the concession stand is soda. I hate soda. Do you realize how horrible that stuff is for you? Wine, meanwhile, is healthy in moderation, and since my friend Steph and I normally split it with Leg, I’d call that moderate.” Grace corked the bottle and stuffed it back in the purse.

            “As long as it’s healthy.” Matt took a sip. “This is my first drink so I know I’m not hearing things. Is your brother’s name really Leg? What was his wife’s name? Arm? Did they name their kiddo Phalange?”

             “What?” Grace frowned at him. “Oh, Leg’s my younger brother. He doesn’t have any kids, thank god.”

            “That’s probably for the best. I’m going out on a limb here to say he doesn’t sound together enough to have children.”

            “Har, har, aren’t you funny. Keep it up and I’m taking the wine back.”

            Matt shook his head. “Don’t even try, I deserve it for trying to understand your particular brand of inconsistency.”

            “What inconsistency?”

            “Let’s look at just one example. You yell at me for saying anything in public that might give you a bad reputation, but then you smuggle alcohol into a children’s event. Does that sound consistent to you?”

            Grace pursed her lips primly. “Well of course it’s consistent. The key thing here is that no one knows it’s wine.”

            Matt opened his mouth to explain all the reasons why that was a failure of logic when Grace hushed him. On the floor below a dark haired man was staring at them as Grace waved. Matt assumed this was the younger brother, given that he shared Grace’s wide eyes, evident even from their spot seven rows up. To his surprise, the man barely acknowledged them past a quick nod, moving instead to sit with the girl that had to be Billy’s blonde.

            He turned to Grace to figure out what was going on. She was watching them so intently that Matt felt uncomfortable on their behalf. “If you keep staring like that they’re going to feel it,” Matt said. “You could kill small animals with that look.”

            “I knew it,” Grace hissed. “There’s definitely something fishy here.”

            Matt exhaled. “Listen lady, you promised to answer any questions I asked and so far I still don’t even understand why you are so paranoid about this girl. What is going on exactly?”

            It amazed him how Grace could carry on a whole conversation without looking away from her brother and the blonde once. This woman would be terrifying as a mother; you wouldn’t be able to get away with anything without her knowing. Matt continued to sip his wine as he listened to Grace’s story about bars, brothers, and her suspicion that the only reason the girl was with Billy was because of Leg.

“It’s not that I don’t think Billy’s good enough for her,” Grace said for the fifth time, Matt had been counting, “but the fact is Billy doesn’t normally have girls leaving the bars with him. He just doesn’t come off well at first because he’s shy. I know Leg talked to her, I’m pretty sure Leg’s into her, and since he can be a charmer I think she saw dating Billy as an opportunity to continue to see Leg.”

Matt held out his wine cup for a refill. “Has anyone ever told you what happens when you assume?”

Grace had been reaching for her purse but stopped to scowl at him. “I give you wine, I brought you popcorn, and you’re still judging me?”

“You are not allowed to get mad. Granted, that was more of a rhetorical question but it still falls under the confines of our agreement. I’m not judging you at all. I’m worried though that you’re jumping to a lot of conclusions.” He shook his cup at her. “Now fill ‘er up.” He waited until Grace had started pouring to continue. “So if Leg is interested in this girl why would he help Billy pick her up?”

Grace had finally stopped watching the twosome a few rows in front of them, but instead she kept scanning the crowd, most likely to make sure no one saw the contraband bottle. “You act like you know everything, but you don’t know the bros before hos rule? Really?” Matt choked on a bite of popcorn. Grace patted him on the back briefly before continuing. “Leg is a people pleaser, and Billy rarely shows an interest in other girls.” 

            “I used to think small towns were boring,” Matt said. “I’m starting to think you’re better than reality TV.”

            Grace smiled at him. “Just wait until the half. We’re going down there and meeting the girl.”

            “We?” Matt asked hopefully. He had been trying to work out a plan to get Grace to agree this time to see him again, but so far his best idea was bribery with more wine.

            “Yes, we.” Grace cocked her head. “I think you might be able to get a much better read on the situation.”

            Matt stroked his chin, sparing a second to wish he could grow an actual beard instead of looking like a starving artist every time he forgot to shave. “We’ll probably have to meet sometime later then to debrief. We don’t want them to be suspicious.”

            “We’ll see. Try not to talk about sleeping with me every other minute. Leg won’t care, but if it gets back to my brother Grant you’re going to be in a world of hurt.”

            Matt studied the man ahead of them. “Is your other brother bigger or smaller?”

            “Bigger, and ripped,” Grace said.

            “Then I’ll be on my best behavior.” Matt stuck up his hand. “Scout’s honor.” He smiled innocently at her. “Now back to our question agreement.”

            Grace breathed in relief when the buzzer for half time sounded. She had never been particularly good at waiting, and while Matt’s continued and absurd questions had kept her occupied as she explained everything from how they had met Billy back when Grant was in second grade to why she didn’t like pudding, what really mattered at this game was sitting just a few rows below them. She watched Leg turn in his seat to look for her, and waved him up.

            “There’s no way we’re going down to them,” she explained to Matt. “They’re sitting way too close to Mrs. Callahan. She’s the godmother of my brother’s shrew of an ex-wife. She’s convinced we’re all heathens. Actually I think her words last time were ‘atheist whores.’ She’ll have a field day talking to you.”

            Matt looked wounded. Grace was irritated to discover he managed to even make that seem sexy. “I have been nothing but circumspect tonight, because unlike certain people I recognize there’s a time and place for these things, and maybe a bleacher stand full of high school students isn’t it.”

            “Is this another comment on the wine? We’ve been doing it since graduation. Trust me, it’s not a big deal.” Leg and the girl were still making their way up the stairs, hitting the wrong flow of traffic. Matt was looking exasperated, which gave Grace a surprising sense of victory. Before she could tease him about it she heard “Ms. Phillips” being called.

            Thank goodness she had hidden the wine again. The calls were from some of her students, who explained in a rush that one of the girls had scrapped up her knee and she didn’t want to ‘bleed all over’ her jeans.

Matt looked on in interest as Grace discretely searched her purse again while instructing the distraught girl. “Roll your pants up, Katrina, and hold still.” She swapped the cut with alcohol, then stuck on a Band-Aid. “You’re lucky I happened to have this stuff on me.”

Katrina grinned. “You’re always prepared Ms. Phillips, we knew you could help.” She unrolled her pant leg. “Bobby W talked to me for a whole hour the last time I wore these jeans, I didn’t want to have to throw them out.”

“Bobby W is a tool,” one of the other girls said. “Ms. Phillips, do you have any cough drops? My throat is really sore.”

“If you’re feeling sick you shouldn’t be at the game,” Grace warned as she handed over a cough drop. She could see Leg behind the girls rolling his eyes. “I don’t want to see you in the office tomorrow needing to leave school early.”

The group chorused their goodbyes, giggling as they climbed down the bleachers to leave room for Leg to maneuver his way over. Grace squeezed Matt’s arm to get his attention.

“Hey,” Leg called as he ushered the blonde to them. “It’s a school night Gracie, not day. Stop working. I want you to meet Devon. Devon, this is my sister, Grace, the most dedicated school nurse to ever live. And you are?” He raised an eyebrow at Matt.

            “Matt Tyler, the new counselor. I’m assuming you’re Leg?” Matt flashed a smile at Devon. “Nice to meet you both. Grace didn’t mention her brother was seeing someone.”

            Grace had to overcome the sudden urge to kiss Matt as she watched Leg flounder. She could never have gotten away with saying something like that since Leg knew she had been obsessively watching the situation.

            “Oh I’m actually here with Billy,” Devon spoke up. “Leg was being sweet and keeping me company. I’m still meeting people so I didn’t have anyone to sit with.”

            “Billy’s the team coach. We’re meeting up with him afterwards for dinner,” Leg jumped in. “You’re welcome to join us.”

            Grace frowned. “Steph said we were on probation this week.”

            “Steph was there Friday night, right?” Devon asked. She seemed to be trying to memorize everyone in the group. Grace suspected the addition of Matt had thrown her off.

            “Shortie with a death stare? Yep, that’s our Steph.” Leg blinked as everyone turned to stare at him. “Shortie as in she’s short. Geez people. Anyway I stopped at the diner yesterday and sorted it out, no worries.” Leg looked around. “Where is Steph tonight?”

            “I have no idea, I texted her that I was coming instead of Grant but she never responded.” Grace motioned at the seats. “Are you two going to stand there all night or do you want to sit down?”

            Devon hesitated. “We’re farther away up here.”

            Leg sat down at the end, long legs sprawled. “Yeah but we’re less noticeable. Do you have enough cups, Grace?”

            “You’re in for a treat, Devon, apparently we’re sitting with a group of alcoholics,” Matt said as Grace returned to the giant purse.

Grace carefully poured and handed over the cups. “And apparently you don’t want any more. Drink up guys, there’s a little bit left and Matt has given up his refill rights.” She heard him spluttering but ignored him. “So Devon, what do you do? I feel like I know nothing about you.” She felt Matt poking her side, but subtlety never seemed to work well for her.

“I’m a librarian,” Devon said. “Actually I really wanted to meet you, Grace. Billy mentioned you were in a book club?”

Grace felt herself turning beet red. She purposely stayed turned to Devon, hoping that for some miraculous reason Matt had stopped paying attention. “Um, that’s true, I just don’t know if it’s really something you’d be interested in.”

“I love all sorts of books! I don’t have any genre limitations.” Grace could clearly see Leg trying not to laugh over Devon’s head. 

“We really stick to the romance category, absolutely nothing scholarly. And none of us have any sort of background in literature. You’d probably be really bored with our discussion,” Grace said in desperation.

Devon reached and tentatively touched her hands. “Please, it would mean so much if I could join you. What are you reading next?”

Grace could feel Matt behind her, and she just knew he was listening in. The beast missed nothing. It was why she had asked him to help her decipher the situation with Leg, not so he could learn all her little secrets.

However, Devon was looking hopeful, and Grace resigned herself with a sigh and lowered her voice. “It’s called Ruthless Passion. It’s about a woman captured by pirates that falls in love with the captain.” She paused, Devon still looked interested and it would only be fair to tell her the whole truth. “Honestly, we only read the bodice-ripper novels, and then we compare the sex scenes. That’s all we discuss.”

To her relief Devon laughed with pleasure. “That’s amazing! What a great idea!”

Leg meanwhile was laughing his head off, and Grace could feel Matt stiffen besides her.

“Hold on, I’m calling time out.”

She turned to him slowly. “Can you call a time out? Is that allowed?”

“Don’t even, Miss I-Call-Pause. You keep critiquing me for what you call obscene comments, and you’re in a book club devoted to literary porn?” Matt asked, outraged.

“Shh, not so loud!”

Leg was laughing louder than ever. Matt continued to frown at her. “Let me guess, it’s okay because no one knows about it.”

“I read them on my kindle.” Grace explained. “It’s not like anyone can see the covers.”

             Leg broke in. “The thing about my sister, which it sounds like you’ve realized already, is that she’s very concerned with appearances. My brother Grant is the same way.”

            “Is it a town thing? What about you?” Matt asked.

            “I’m the black sheep. I do what I want. But otherwise, yeah, pretty much a town thing.”

            Devon interrupted. “Billy doesn’t seem like that.”

            Grace scowled at Matt. “That’s because you probably behave like a perfectly normal person, whereas Matt here should probably be muzzled in public.”

            “That’s it,” Matt said. “I’ve been good so far tonight and it doesn’t seem to matter, so now you’re really going to get it. You know what I think about your little book club habit? It’s a way for you to deal with sex on your own terms. I bet you freak out about fucking a real person because you spend the whole time wondering if they’re critiquing you.”

            Grace gasped. Devon was wisely staying silent, a point in her direction, but she could hear Leg laughing hysterically again. The only good thing was that Matt had lowered his voice, so combined with the noise of the resumed game she didn’t think anyone could hear their conversation. “As soon as we are out of here, I am strangling you with my purse.” She gritted out.

            Leg cut in. “I’m sorry Gracie, but I think I’m in love with this man. Matt, you’re joining us for dinner, right?”

            Matt met Grace’s death glare with a smile. “I’d love to.”

            Grace had known it all along; despite the angelic looks he had to be a devil. With effort she turned her back to him.  “So Devon, what kind of books do you normally read?” This game couldn’t end too soon.

Aliens, a Love Story

"If it comes to that... I'll do us both."
-Hicks

I've always suspected that my idea of romance and relationships is a little off. Today is only affirming that, because Aliens is on. I love Aliens, way more than Alien. I've been debating every time I'm at Target if I can buy Aliens without owning Alien or if that's against the rules of life. Why do I love Aliens so much?

Well mainly because of Hicks.

Hicks may be up there with my ideal man. He takes charge of a bad situation, he's great with Newt, and he makes snarky comments. All things I enjoy. When he gives Ripley his tracker watch thingy I almost swoon. His promise to kill both of them so they don't get alien embryos all up in their business is one of the most romantic things I've ever heard. Of course is you know anything about Aliens you know Hicks is not the real hero of the story, Ripley is, and that's awesome too.

So since my ideal romance story involves danger and snark and girls that are equally bad ass as guys, it's probably not a surprise that I don't really enjoy romance novels. I have read my fair share. I used to steal them from my grandma when I needed something to read. When I worked at a book store I'd page through them here and there. But I can't really get into them, UNLESS there's a humorous element.

Basically I need the books that are romcoms. I can't do straight gushy love so there better be some shenanigans and brouhaha to keep me interested. You'd think that would be pretty easy to find, but apparently I'm picky. I also want interesting female characters and dialogue that doesn't make me beat my head off the wall. And is it too much to ask that we don't always randomly impregnate people? I mean seriously, there's more to life than knocking up the female lead.

I find it intensely frustrating trying to find new books that meet my criteria. I read the description on the back and it sounds like it MUST be a funny story and then it's just not. It's atrocious. It makes me lose faith in humanity.

And then there's Jenny Crusie.

I love Jennifer Crusie stories with a passion. I first started off with her story Faking It, which has art theft, multiple personalities, orange-pinapple muffins, and fake orgasms. Slowly but surely I started accumulating more and more of her books, including the ones written with Bob Mayer which are my favorite, hands down. Her stories are amazing. Yes, there's romance. Yes, it gets sappy sometimes. But they are hysterical for one thing, and for another despite the absurdity that goes on (and trust me, it can get absurd) they feel more real.

This year I started to suspect I had a Jennifer Crusie problem, because prompted by my friend Erin I decided to start tracking the books I read. I reread Jennifer Crusie novels A LOT. I realized why last week, when I was rather depressed so I decided it was time to read one of the new ones I had been saving. Her books just make me feel better, plain and simple. And realizing that, I made a decision.

For NaNoWriMo this year I'm going to try and write a happy, funny, love story.

I've known about National Novel Writing Month for ages. If you're not familiar, it's basically where you write a 50,000 word story in the month of November. I've debated doing it several times, but I've always had an excuse to not do it (ex: several papers due that month, moving, or taking a lot of vacations). This year though my friend Erin is doing NaNoWriMo and she inspires me to try as well.

There are sooooooo many reasons why this may be the worst year to do it. I am traveling literally every week of the month. I have a vacation with my family. I have a wedding to attend. I have work functions. I have Thanksgiving with my brother. BUT, I'm going to try anyway. I think I'm going to be cutting out TV completely for the month, and that's okay.

I do better with goals. I do even better when people know my goals, and I don't want them to know I've failed. Take my jazzercise progress as proof (I hit my 150 classes before the end of October! WOOT!). I have not been writing as much as I should. I love writing, I have a ton of ideas, and I need to just MAKE MYSELF DO IT.

I actually came to the decision to participate a few weeks ago, but the idea of writing a happy story is new. This may sound weird, but except for my fanfiction, which is admittedly fluffy, all my writing tends to be dark. Not like Stephen King dark, but there's pretty much always some sort of either depressing or scary element. That's fine and dandy, but I really want to challenge myself this year. I want something that makes other people happy and gets them through tough times like Jennifer Crusie does for me.

Will I be successful? Oh lordy, who even knows. But the point is I am determined to try.

When Rangers Make You Randy

Apparently the Green Ranger is coming to Austin in November for Comic Con! I found out a few weeks ago and I have been super excited. I may actually go. I say this not because I am against going to cons, but because as my friend Erin has already discussed we keep planning to go to Dragon Con and failing at it. But I think I’m legit going to make the Austin Comic Con happen, if for no other reason than the fact that the Green Ranger will be there.

Now I don’t talk about the Power Rangers as much as other things (like Vampire Diaries and jazzercise, which you’ve heard about many a time) but I have certainly mentioned them before. When the Power Rangers came out all the kids in my neighborhood fell in love with the show. We jostled over who got to be which ranger. Luckily this was when I was the alpha of the group (as opposed to later in the days of the Spice Girls when my friend Bri was alpha and we had to follow her rulings) so I got dibs on the Pink Ranger.

If you aren’t familiar with the Power Rangers, it was a group of teenagers that were given special coins that allowed them to “morph” into ninja warriors that also had “zords” which were basically like giant machines they used to fight giant monsters. It was rather ingenious that the teenagers weren’t born special but got their powers from an outside source, so they could easily switch out characters when necessary.

Initially there were 5 rangers – Red, Pink, Yellow, Blue, and Black. Pink and Yellow were girls (duh), Red was the leader, and in a racist twist that was delightfully overlooked the first year the Yellow Ranger was Asian, and the Black Ranger was African American.

I loved the Pink Ranger, Kimberly. She was pretty, a gymnast, and of course at the time seemed powerful and in control. Like the other rangers, she wore her color at all points, so she was always wearing some wonderful 90s fashion in pink. I fully blame this show for the disaster that was my pink bedroom. Pink walls, pink carpets… and I was stuck with it for YEARS.

Anyway, Tommy Oliver, the Green Ranger, showed up in season 1 but was initially a bad guy. He was from a rival school or something, was just as good as the Red Ranger in martial arts (oh did I forget to mention they all know martial arts? Power Rangers is also to blame for all the kids that suddenly decided they needed to do karate, which includes my brother), and so Rita Repulsa made him her evil minion.

MEANWHILE, there was all sorts of tension between him & Kimberly despite him being a bad guy. Eventually Tommy became a good guy, and later he became the White Ranger and was the new leader of the gang. Kimberly and Tommy were an adorable couple, and all was right in the world. 

Seriously, tell me you didn't want that back in the day

Tommy Oliver was my first fictional character crush. Actually now that I think of it, Power Rangers is probably also to blame for my previously discussed problem where I habitually prefer bad guys/guys that are kind of dicks. Huh, apparently Power Rangers is almost solely responsible for all the problems in life. Don’t let that stop you from watching it though! If I had the original seasons I’d watch that in a hot second. As it is I frequently turn to the Power Rangers movie when I need an emotional boost.

But anyway, the Green Ranger was like girl fantasy candy. He was hot, strong, evil, but seemed to have hints of good because of his feelings for Kimberly. Even when he became good he was witty, dependable, protective, and still super sexy.

I didn’t realize how deeply Power Rangers was embedded in my subconscious until the other day when my friend tried to pull his hair into a ponytail, reminded me vaguely of the Green Ranger, and all of a sudden I was like !!!!!!!!!

They say you always remember your first love. Maybe you always remember your first fictional crush as well. I should probably figure out if I’ve been unconsciously trying to find a guy like the Green Ranger and that’s half my problem, but that can wait for another retrospective lazy weekend.

We’re Gonna Need a Bigger Boat

So I’m a little late to the game with this, but this evening I happened to find the “documentary” Megalodon and decided to watch it. I remembered that a few weeks ago when I was traveling I saw my Facebook feed blow up with mentions of megalodon but had no idea what was going on, was too busy to find out, and was so exhausted by the time I got home that I forgot all about it.

I actually had a little bit of background on megalodons before watching the show. Why? Well, remember the 5 Ways I Definitely Don’t Want to Die and how I’m crazy terrified of sharks? As I mentioned I’ve ALWAYS been afraid of sharks. It’s not something that developed after watching some movie or tv show. It’s an instinctive fear. In fact, I am mildly convinced I was eaten (or bitten) by a shark in a past life.

But anyway, my parents realized pretty quickly that I was a little insane on this issue, and they tried various approaches to handle the situation. Clearly, none of those attempts were effective. However some of them, like the “suck it up” method, at least taught me to try and act normal in public. Others might have actually made things worse. See my parents thought it would be a good idea if I learned more about sharks. After all, the facts prove how unlikely it is to be attacked by a shark, let alone die from an attack.

My mother got me an adorable kid’s book about sharks. It had very nice drawings and all sorts of important facts. She pointed out that baby sharks were called “pups” to make them seem more loveable. She highlighted the sharks that can’t even bite people, like the whale shark. We even bought a few “baby sharks,” which were fish that looked like little sharks, so they’d be in our fish tank and I’d get familiar with them.

The problem was this didn’t make me any less afraid of sharks, but I developed a strange addiction to learning more about them. I did a project on sharks in high school. I buy books on shark attacks. Every time I see an article online about sharks I read it. I draw the line at watching shark week, because seeing them in action is terrifying.

Megalodons were mentioned in that first book from my mother about sharks. Of course it highlighted the fact that they were extinct. Over the years I’ve read a few articles when people have new theories about megalodons. Then, I foolishly read the “Meg” fiction series about megalodons still existing in the trenches of the ocean. So it’s fair to say I’m familiar with them.

When I saw the “Megalodon: The Monster Shark Lives” listing I assumed it was just a documentary talking more about the shark and their theories on it. I jumped in almost an hour into the show. You can imagine my confusion when they were talking like there’s really a possibility the megalodon is still around, and possibly tied to some recent whale and boat attacks.

Due to the way I was lying on the couch, I happened to have my hand resting against my throat, and not even 5 minutes into the show I could literally feel my pulse going wild. Within 8 minutes, I had to text my father because I was already starting to panic about the idea that maybe megalodons were swimming merrily around the coasts. Thank goodness he pays more attention to life than me and knew it was a hoax.

Even knowing it wasn’t real for the rest of the documentary, I almost had a mild heart attack when they decided to try and tag the shark near the end. I was doing my fair share of screaming at the screen. I mean seriously, you’re trying to catch a megalodon and you don’t have like a battleship?? Not only did their main boat seem way too tiny to me, but they put people in a CAGE and then had to rescue them in tiny little speed boats. OMG are TRYING to make me die of panic??

This is why I don’t watch Shark Week.

The good news is that there’s no current evidence of megalodon. Phew.

Should there ever be even a hint that megalodons are still alive, I may never enter the ocean again.

It’s been an ongoing struggle just to go swimming at the beach, and that’s in places like Rohobeth that aren’t really known for their shark attacks. I refused to go on a cruise for years because I hate being on boats in the water. It’s not that I think a shark is going to capsize the boat (that’s just crazy), but what if it sinks for some other legit reason? I’d still be in the water in the middle of nowhere.

I was heavily impressed with myself when I did a cruise with friends a few years ago. Even better, I managed to talk myself into snorkeling, which was an absolutely amazing experience. I’m so glad I did it.  Of course you may wonder, how exactly did I get over my fear for this? Well, I made all my guy friends going in the water with me swear that if a shark attacked they would drag me back to the beach no matter what, and I stayed near someone at all times, and still was in a constant state of anxiety the whole time in the water. Honestly, I’m amazed I’m alive.

But if I even start to suspect there’s megalodons running amuck, you’re going to have some work convincing me that even something like a cruise ship is big enough for safety.